Frustrated online dating

I’m going to tell you something that you already know: dating is a frustrating process of trial and error.

For a lot of people, it’s a seemingly never-ending dance of missed connections, nights you’ll never get back again and wondering just what’s wrong with you and why everybody else seems to have it so much easier. In fact, for many people, online dating is such a trial that they give up early on.

Welcome back to The Attraction Doctor Last week, I discussed why women can't find a "good" man (here).

In that article, I explained my hypothesis that women are stuck in a double-bind between what they are told through modern social norms and their own biological motivation.

They may have started dating somebody they met on that very site and just never got around to closing their account or editing their profile to indicate that they’re no longer on the market.

In a previous article, I put forward the notion that individuals were not "afraid" to date—rather they simply did not have sufficient incentive to do so (see here).You should also avoid group photos because you don’t want a man to be confused (or distracted by your equally attractive girlfriend!) Instead of selfies you should invest in professional photos!Are you about to cancel your subscription to your online dating site?Or, are you scared to even try online dating in the first place because of all the horror stories you’ve heard from your friends?